Ive never been in a street fight or never had any kind of scuffle whatsoevr can i still be a thug and act hard

does that make me look like a wimp or can i go around telling people who dont like me shut up punk i'll kick yo *** (because i dont know if i can really kick their ***)

Ive never been in a street fight or never had any kind of scuffle whatsoevr can i still be a thug and act hard
Real men don't need to fight to prove their masculinity. All they need is to be more confident. If you have a problem with someone, then it is always best to talk it out. That way, no one gets hurt. As Tristan J. Loo once said, "If you stop calling him your opponent, then perhaps he can join you as a partner."
Reply:I don't think that you should do that cause someone might just whoop yo ***.
Reply:Hm.. Try cracking a school book every now and then maybe?
Reply:Lol, of course you can still act like a "thug and act hard," just look at all the other guys who act hard. It's not attractive at all though, and more people will laugh at you then take you serious, but it's your choice.
Reply:no cuz then your nothing but a poser. dont pretend to be something your not its unattrative and pitiful.
Reply:Why would you want to act like a thug, that isn't a good image. I would say be very careful in what you get yourself into, because one day you might just run into a real street thug that has the I don't care attitude, and you could get seriously hurt. Why not just be yourself and let everyone like you for who you are. Always remember there are always going to be someone who doesn't like you, and that's okay. A lot of people didn't like JESUS CHRIST, and no one is as good as he were, and no one ever gave their life for mankind. I say be you, and never let no one make you change who you are. Just concentrate on the good things in life, and leave the bad things to the riff raff of the world.
Reply:the problem with pretending to be hard is the more you do it and pull it of the bolder you will get till you start believing it your self, then one day like me you will be with some one you are showing off 2 and you will push your luck just that bit 2 far and some one will call your bluff.


it happend to me and no matter how i tried to talk my way out of it and save face i could not, that day on the way home from school on coptrod hill my fake make believe world came crashing down to earth, the only thing that hurt more than the pasting i took was my hurt pride.


school was hell the word was out i was soft, now every kid id slapped down wanted there pound of flesh even my so called mates where nowhere to be seen.


i had to get my pride back and show them i was hard i really was, so i joined a boxing gym 3 nights aweek i went pluss running on saturday afternoons i was so determind to build my self up to take back what was once mine, for the first 6 weeks i did nothing but skipping fitness work pull ups press ups sit ups star jumps i dreamed them in my sleep i ate food that was only going to make me strong then i started to box lerning to bob and weave how to stand and keep my chin in, i met new friends and got a new good feeling about me, after 3 months people started noticing a diffrence in my id started to change i was more relaxed more happy, jokey, having fun then one day i noticed that being hard did not bother me any more, id changed i no longer needed people to think i was hard i did not care what they thought i did not swager around school like i was 10 men i just had fun, ive never had a street fight since taking up boxing coz its not for that, i dont have to pretend to be hard any more coz i dont need to be hard just my self.


good luck..xx

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